Healthy Habits.

 I think chores are a hard work. Cooking, cleaning, laundry, making your bed, folding your clothes neatly, etc... they at least require a certain amount of will power to get done.

But all in all, I also think its just human subconsciousness. At first they seem a great deal of a task, but once you make it become a habit (like I said, at first it might seem a big deal), it gradually fits into your schedule to the point where you might start to question yourself, "Why are other people not doing this? What is wrong with them? Or am I acting weird?"

It's like you standing up to do the dishes at your friend's house and they're like "Bro what are you doing? Leave it, the girls are going to wash them." 

Or you washing your own clothes and someone says "Wow, you do your own laundry?"

I mean once you make these become habits, you will find that it's very funny for someone to ask those kinds of questions. You might end up correcting your friend in the kitchen saying "Bro, what are you talking about? They're just dishes. No big deal."

Or that someone at the laundry area like "Is doing your own laundry illegal now?"

These small things no longer become chores, rather, they become part of our lives. Like wearing a shirt before you go out. If you feel uncomfortable going out to the street without a proper t-shirt, you will also feel very uncomfortable to leave the room in the morning without fixing the bed. Or folding the clothes.

Just like flushing the toilet after doing your business, you will see that it will become very challenging to just leave dirty dishes in the sink and walk away.

Seem like someone else's job to wash the dishes or pick up rubbish but over time, you get used to it and it becomes a part of you.

People around you will see that you are being responsible, kind, caring and respectful towards others, but from your own point of view, you are doing it because it needs to be done, not because you want to please others.

And when people start calling you kind and responsible and all those nice words, you will even doubt what they're saying because you didn't do it for their validation, rather, you did it because you're used to doing that. You did it because you knew that if you didn't, who will?

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